“I don’t know how I would have made it through the most terrifying chapter of my life without her.

During the peak of my separation and the process of getting a restraining order, I was overwhelmed with fear, confusion, and pain. She showed up for me in a way no one else did, offering guidance, compassion, and wisdom that helped me take one brave step at a time.

She wasn’t just a friend. She became my rock, my safe space, and my voice of reason when I couldn’t trust my own.

She helped me find the right attorney, talked me through moments of doubt and panic, and reminded me of my strength when I felt completely broken.

Her insight, presence, and support weren’t just comforting—they were truly life-saving.

What makes her different is how deeply she understands. She doesn’t offer surface-level encouragement. She speaks from experience, from truth, and from a place of deep empathy. She held space for my healing and empowered me to believe in myself again.

If you’re fortunate enough to work with her, just know you’re not alone anymore. You’ve found someone who will walk beside you, hold your hand through the fire, and help you come out stronger on the other side.”

—Veronica Muñoz, DV Survivor and Friend 

“Many people I know get extremely excited when they have strong momentum in their lives.

Their jobs, family, and health are in the utmost place.

Then suddenly, many people face life interruptions that they did not see coming.

Nillie understands the sudden distractions and devastation that life can bring you.

Nillie is known everywhere she goes as the Butterfly Girl.

She is a beautiful carrier of her message, that we can find strength to not only stand again, but soar higher than before. 

Her message is changing so many.

It’s my privilege to partner with her and share many stages as she brings her wonderful transformation message. 

—Tim Storey, Author, Speaker, Leader

“I’ve personally witnessed Nillie guide women through some of the darkest chapters of their lives helping them not only escape domestic violence but rebuild with strength, dignity, and purpose. What she does is nothing short of amazing.

Nillie is like witnessing a butterfly take flight — she helps women release the fear and pain they’ve carried and step into their true power and soar.

One of my favorite things she says is, “Pain is temporary, but if you quit or settle, it lasts forever.” And she lives that truth every single day.

She doesn’t just coach women, she walks beside them and believes in them until they believe in themselves. She uses her story and leads with love to help others. And beyond all she does for others, what moves me most is how deeply she loves and shows up for her children, and she really shows up.

Nillie is an extraordinary mother and teacher of young men. The way she balances both her mission and motherhood is nothing short of inspiring.”

—David Michael, CEO of Lead With Love 

“Nillie cares deeply about the well-being of others.

Her decision to pursue coaching is due to the incredible transformation she has gone through herself, overcoming adversity and coming out the other side a more vibrant and purpose-driven woman.

As her coach and friend, I have seen how much this mission means to her.

Nillie is trustworthy, hardworking, and has an extraordinary sense of empathy in everything she does.

I can’t wait to see what she accomplishes now that she is fully aligned with her vision as a transformational life coach and taking action towards helping others.”

—Lauren Fields, Founder & Host of Fieldswell